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  • “The Magic of Honesty” — Combo Reels Video
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  • The Statue of Liberty Blew Me A Kiss
    No. Not *that* Statue of Liberty. I am talking about the cute one spinning a sign by the side of the road on my way to work. One day, I went the five-minute longer route to work. And low and behold there was a man in what looked like a very uncomfortable and hot costume…. Continue Reading →
  • “They Give Up to Soon” — The Gaslighting of Former Exgays
    Intro To start this series of posts, here is a definition of “gaslighting” that I really appreciate. Gaslighting is a colloquialism, loosely defined as making someone question their own reality The term may also be used to describe a person (a “gaslighter”) who presents a false narrative to another group or person which leads them to doubt… Continue Reading →
  • Memoir to be Published in Early 2023
    I have some fun and exciting news. I met with a Publisher last week, and they definitely want to publish my memoir. The full manuscript is due in June. While the rough draft is done, it’s still a lot of work to pull together the first draft (a proper manuscript); got to hop to it!… Continue Reading →
  • Confronting Conversion Therapy is Not An Attack On The Gospel
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  • Yass, Jesus! Podcast Discusses “Pray Away”
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  • Where 2020 = Horrible, 2021 = WTF Rollercoaster
    2021 had me holding on by the seat of my pants through the dramatic highs and lows. You know when you get off the rollercoaster, and your hair is all messed up, and you aren’t sure where your chewing gum went? Where your voice is hoarse from screaming and laughing? Remember that lovely moment when… Continue Reading →
  • Merry Christmas from The Scobey Family
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  • Do You Feel That Those Years Spent In Conversion Therapy Are, ‘Lost’?
    What is it like to have spent 20 years not being able to be your true self, no matter how sincerely? What is it like to start over in the dating pool when you’re not 20?  Do you feel, in any way, that those years are, “lost?” Steve S First question, “What is it like… Continue Reading →
  • The Gospel According to Conversion Therapy
    During a long formative season at Exodus International, we thought when it came to reparative therapy (known today as conversion therapy), that it was the answer to take us from backrooms of churches to a greater place of legitimacy in the church and with the culture. We had also hoped it would further distinguish us… Continue Reading →
  • Send Me An Angel… Right Now…
    Back when I was seventeen, I used to sneak out of the house and/or call in sick to work to go hang out at the gay bars. Initially, the euphoria and my naiveté made a powerful mix. As any traumatized slightly neurotic 17-year-old looking for any semblance of escape would be prone to do, I… Continue Reading →
  • The Reality Behind Restored Hope Network
    About a year before Exodus closed, the Restored Hope Network (RHN) formed out of a theologically and culturally driven split within the Exodus Member Ministries networks. Every once in a while, someone will ask me what they are doing, which isn’t much nowadays. The only “new” ministries they add are old Exodus ministries. Exodus International… Continue Reading →

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