Sexplorer
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, mistakes, discoveries, and the kind of laughter that only happens when you stop pretending you know what you’re doing.
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And, it happened at a church Valentine’s Day event… I just wanted to sell a painting. She stared at my painting, tears streaming down her cheeks, and whispered, “That’s just… so beautiful.” First time anyone’s cried over my art — usually it’s the price tag that does it. Cut to the Valentine’s party a week…
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Yes, I do. And I live up to that “meaning” all the time. Being free to be Randy/randy has been a looooong journey. Them: “You’ve been asked the ‘randy’ question a lot, huh? To answer the question… In England, the slang meaning of my name “Randy” is horny. Austin Powers is famously quoted in his…
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Let’s just say it involved a particular medication lasting much longer than four hours and a hilarious ER doctor. Am I really going to share this story? Yes, yes I am. I promise, this is not a p*rny post. Cringey? Yes a lot of of hilarious cringey. So, one playful night the guy I was…
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For some it is unrealistic. But like my friend Allen says, “Whatever people decide to do, or don’t do, in their bedroom is non of anyone else’s da** business!” So let me tell you mine…:) I am back and this SubStack is alive again! Monogamy and Ethical Non-monogamy To answer the question before it happens,…
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When I went to my first Gay Days bear party, let’s just say I was an over dressed bundle of nerves. Attending that bear pool party showed me what genuine self-acceptance and unfiltered joy could look like, even as I clung to my pleated khakis and trusty computer bag for comfort. Surrounded by men who…
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How did your sense of self and confidence change after becoming sexually active? Looking back, I see how much I’ve grown—from the fearful, self-conscious person I once was to someone who’s learning to embrace both vulnerability and connection. It’s not about becoming perfect or fearless, but about realizing that real intimacy and self-acceptance come from…
