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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Where Does He Find the Time? (A Confession)
Someone asked me recently where I’ve been finding all this extra time to write. It’s a fair question. The posts have been coming fast and…
Recent Writing
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The Extra Seat at the Table
I was nineteen years old, homeless, living out of my car, and seriously considering whether staying alive was worth the effort. My…
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What 12 Years Can Do
There’s a photo on my phone from April 28, 2014. I’m grinning at the camera like everything is fine. Wide eyes, big…
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The Ballroom, the Bullets, and the Bullsh**ter-in-Chief
Well, good morning, Mugwumps. Pour yourself some strong coffee, because this past weekend was a Lot. In case you somehow slept through…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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