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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Happy Birthday to Me (I Deserve This)
Today is my birthday. I am 58 years old. I’m going to let that sit there without apology, because 58 looks a hell of a…
Recent Writing
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Botox? The Jury Is Still Out (But My Forehead Has an Opinion)
Yesterday I got Botox. I know. I know. For the record, I have spent years being genuinely unbothered by the concept. Not…
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The Golden Donald: A Calf by Any Other Name
Let me set the scene for you. A gleaming gold statue of Donald Trump — fist raised to the heavens, gold suit…
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Vanity, Thy Name Is Randy (And I’m Embracing Her)
I am turning 58 next Thursday, and I have decided I want abs. Not metaphorical abs. Not “abs are made in the…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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