Welcome
Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Mandusa and the Snake Named Bruce
There is a very specific kind of evening that starts completely normal and ends with you standing in your backyard holding the moral weight of…
Recent Writing
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The Prophet of Whatever You Want to Hear
I spent over twenty years inside the religious right. Not as a casual Family Research Council/CPAC/Exodus International/and others supporter — I was…
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Thrive–The Calm I Didn’t Know I’d Found
Thrive is a space where I write honestly about navigating life with full presence — the joy, the grief, the beauty, and…
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The Diesel Gospel (And the Stranger Who Saved Dan’s Truck)
It was 1:30 in the morning. We had just landed in Orlando after an epic vacation that had wrung me out like…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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