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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Thirteen Years Free
Today is Juneteenth. I want to say that plainly and with the weight it deserves. Juneteenth marks the day in 1865 when enslaved people in…
Recent Writing
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Joy Is Doing the Lord’s Work (And Honestly, It’s About Time)
There is a thing I believe with my whole entire being, and I have believed it quietly for years because I wasn’t…
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Bread, Circuses, and a $60 Million Claw
Sweet baby Moses. Last night, while American families lose healthcare and trans kids lose their right to exist in public, the People’s…
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I’m Back. And Apparently, We Still Need to Have This Conversation.
A note before we begin: I’ve been on a little blog sabbatical. And the other day I found this comment waiting for…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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