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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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The Strange Math of Outlasting Your Own Past
There’s a feeling I don’t have a clean name for yet, which is annoying, because I’m a writer and naming things is supposedly my whole…
Recent Writing
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Podcast Episode: Faith, Scandal, And Grief
Alex: It’s Time To Thrive — and this week the site is sitting with some genuinely hard material, the kind that doesn’t…
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Peter LaBarbera Is Wrong, And He Knows It
Let me be clear before I write another word: what Alan Chambers allegedly did is reprehensible. Full stop. No asterisk. A 14-year-old…
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Alan Chambers, an Arrest, and the Grief I Can’t Perform Away
I know I am supposed to be on a blogging break. But, this tragedy happened. I wanted to write about Alan’s arrest…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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