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Ask It Basket– Glitter, Grit, and Getting Out
Why My Story Is Healing, Not a Hustle The Question “So tell me, Randy—at what point in bouncing from ‘ex-gay’ executive to super-gay memoirist did you realize you could monetize the trauma and the glitter,…
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Sexplorer–"What is one of the most embarrassing moments in your sexploration so far?"
Let’s just say it involved a particular medication lasting much longer than four hours and a hilarious ER doctor. Am I really going to share this story? Yes, yes I am. I promise, this is…
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How It's Going: Seven Years Later
From dreamy beginnings to shared snacks and Real Housewives marathons. Back in 20222 I wrote, For 21 years I was conditioned to believe that I would have to deny my feelings and marry the opposite…
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Weird Is Where I Belong
A reflection on childhood scars, bonus parenthood, and finally feeling right in the “wrong” place. Of Bio-Kids and Being a Bonus Dad Every once in a while, something random clicks in your brain, and you…
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The Journey Is The Reward
The saying, “The journey is the reward,” has been tumbling around in my brain. To me, it is a reminder of practicing intentional gratitude; of being grateful for the journey and not blinded by manifesting…
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F*ck ICE
I sat down today ready to write a *Sexplorer* post, but that’s impossible right now — the news is too loud, too consuming, too real. What I’m seeing is both unbelievable and heartbreakingly familiar. Of…
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Of Volkswagens & Men in Kilts
And if they are men in kilts driving a “Paprika Red” EOS, even better! Last Saturday I went from feeling out of place to feeling right at home. Sanford Volkswagen Car Show Now that we…
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Sexplorer–Is Monogamy A Unrealistic Standard?
For some it is unrealistic. But like my friend Allen says, “Whatever people decide to do, or don’t do, in their bedroom is non of anyone else’s da** business!” So let me tell you mine…:)…
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Ask It Basket–"Can we pray for you?"
I was hanging out with Danielle Apple and her husband on the Sanford Riverwalk and right in the middle of our discussion on spirituality, the evangelical Christians show up wanting to pray for us. Moments…
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A Christmas Weekend Post
blah blah blah and then Daniel Craig said to me, “Stop it!!!”, blah blah blah How did Chicago become the mecca for filming Christmas movies? It’s been a very good Christmas with the fam, chosen…
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