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Bon Voyage! The Sail Away Party on Celebrity Xcel and Carpe Diem!
We have been on quite a few cruises and always love being on the top deck of the ship as it sails out of port. It’s always a moment where I fall in love with…
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How a Dramahuahua, Shared Grief, and Chosen Family Saved My Holiday Joy
This post is kinda great in its simplicity and humor. 🙂 “Intentional gratefulness is the active, conscious practice of seeking out and appreciating the good in your life, rather than passively waiting for it, helping…
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I Have Honest To God Situational* Empathy For Marjorie Taylor Greene
And it is freaking me out. Maybe that’s what my conscience is up to here—not trying to excuse MTG or soften the very real harm she’s done, but nudging me to remember my own story…
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Let's Change "It" Gets Better to "You" Get Better
After coming out “it” got a lot better but I’ve found the best part of that is “I” got better at living. I strongly believe that when you are honest with yourself, “you” get better.…
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Sexplorer Saturday–Apparently I Was An Adorably Clueless Daddy
When I went to my first Gay Days bear party, let’s just say I was an over dressed bundle of nerves. Attending that bear pool party showed me what genuine self-acceptance and unfiltered joy could…
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Ask It Basket–"When was the last time you passed out on top of a bus?"
A real question I wanted to ask a grandmother who found that part of my story personally relatable, but didn’t. This post is excerpted from my book, WHY: A Memoir The below is an excerpt…
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Mugwump Ramblings–Marriage (Yay!), Epstein Files (Finally!), Democrat Leadership (Where?)
Three more reasons to maintain my Mugwump (a real word) status For those that don’t know, a mugwump according to the googles is: Definition from Oxford Languages–mug·wump /ˈməɡˌwəmp/ noun– a person who remains aloof or…
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Sexplorer Saturday–Self & Confidence
How did your sense of self and confidence change after becoming sexually active? Looking back, I see how much I’ve grown—from the fearful, self-conscious person I once was to someone who’s learning to embrace both…
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Last Night Is A Huge Win for Dems, But What About My Marriage?
Will the blue wave that swept the country last night melt the Wicked Witch of Bigotry this Friday at the Supreme Court? Today, though, is a day to revel (not gloat) in the Democratic victories…
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The One Thought That Stuck With Me In October 2025
Am I turning into my mother?! I am glad that I have her (mom) within me. This mediation has brought a new depth of love and understanding toward her I didn’t know I needed. “Oh…


