Oh lordt, Help me make this honest, helpful, and funny. …for my sexual growth, it was placing my partner’s needs as important as my own, allowing pleasure-based love to sweep me up in *our* moment……

Paid subscribers help keep the lights on but I do not want anyone to feel excluded from certain content if it is of interest to them A Note from Randy Hello Friend, As some of…

Especially when life forces a complete reboot of literally everything… Life is full of surprises; not all of them are pleasant. But they can all be understood and turned for good. Getting Promoted From Executive…

While the following is not p*rn, not even close, it is spicy. Even until a few years ago, I had a LOT of fears I didn’t know about. A lot of hangups. And today, the…

A consistent reminder that I want to thrive, not simply survive. I like the reminder that this is a healthy self-affirmation and not simply decoration. This Silver Pendant Tells A Story of Resilience I have…

A Note from Randy If you’ve found your way here to my Substack, welcome — truly. This little corner of the internet is where I share things that matter to me: stories that linger, reflections…

This is the final installment of the Closet Curses series on why so many rabid anti-LGBTQ+ conservative leaders are gay and living in the church closet. (Other series posts linked below.) Quick Note: Here are…

This series explores the phenomenon of why so many rabid anti-LGBTQ+ Christian and Christian Nationalist leaders are gay and living in the church closet. (Other posts in the series linked below.) Quick Note: In my…

With respect, Supreme Court, please uphold the Colorado Ban on conversion therapy for minors. #supremecourt #conversiontherapy

This is a series exploring the phenomenon of why so many rabid anti-LGBTQ+ Christian and Christian Nationalist leaders are gay and living in the church closet. (Parts 1 & 2 summarized & linked below.) Duh…