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Weird Is Where I Belong
A reflection on childhood scars, bonus parenthood, and finally feeling right in the “wrong” place. Of Bio-Kids and Being a…
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The Journey Is The Reward
The saying, “The journey is the reward,” has been tumbling around in my brain. To me, it is a reminder…
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F*ck ICE
I sat down today ready to write a *Sexplorer* post, but that’s impossible right now — the news is too…
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Of Volkswagens & Men in Kilts
And if they are men in kilts driving a “Paprika Red” EOS, even better! Last Saturday I went from feeling…
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Ask It Basket–"Can we pray for you?"
I was hanging out with Danielle Apple and her husband on the Sanford Riverwalk and right in the middle of…
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How a Dramahuahua, Shared Grief, and Chosen Family Saved My Holiday Joy
This post is kinda great in its simplicity and humor. 🙂 “Intentional gratefulness is the active, conscious practice of seeking…
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I Have Honest To God Situational* Empathy For Marjorie Taylor Greene
And it is freaking me out. Maybe that’s what my conscience is up to here—not trying to excuse MTG or…
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Let's Change "It" Gets Better to "You" Get Better
After coming out “it” got a lot better but I’ve found the best part of that is “I” got better…
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Ask It Basket–"When was the last time you passed out on top of a bus?"
A real question I wanted to ask a grandmother who found that part of my story personally relatable, but didn’t.…
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Mugwump Ramblings–Marriage (Yay!), Epstein Files (Finally!), Democrat Leadership (Where?)
Three more reasons to maintain my Mugwump (a real word) status For those that don’t know, a mugwump according to…
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Last Night Is A Huge Win for Dems, But What About My Marriage?
Will the blue wave that swept the country last night melt the Wicked Witch of Bigotry this Friday at the…
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The One Thought That Stuck With Me In October 2025
Am I turning into my mother?! I am glad that I have her (mom) within me. This mediation has brought…
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Do Not Despise Small Beginnings
Especially when life forces a complete reboot of literally everything… Life is full of surprises; not all of them are…
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The Story Behind My #FuckYeah Pendant
A consistent reminder that I want to thrive, not simply survive. I like the reminder that this is a healthy…
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Closet Curses Part 5–The Abused Becoming The Abuser
This is the final installment of the Closet Curses series on why so many rabid anti-LGBTQ+ conservative leaders are gay…
