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The Fully Clothed Guy at the Clothing-Optional Campground
I went to a gay clothing-optional campground and somehow managed to keep every damn piece of clothing on. It’s funny now—but the reason I couldn’t take them off wasn’t prudishness.…
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Why I Still Believe in Nuance (Even When the Internet Doesn’t)
Hot takes are easy. Humanity is harder. Every morning I sit down with a cup of coffee, a pensive look,…
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The WHY & Pray Away Hangover
A not‑so‑serious survival guide to life after telling everyone your business. Welp, now what? Life after WHY and Pray Away…
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Ask It Basket– Glitter, Grit, and Getting Out
Why My Story Is Healing, Not a Hustle The Question “So tell me, Randy—at what point in bouncing from ‘ex-gay’…
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How It's Going: Seven Years Later
From dreamy beginnings to shared snacks and Real Housewives marathons. Back in 20222 I wrote, For 21 years I was…
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Weird Is Where I Belong
A reflection on childhood scars, bonus parenthood, and finally feeling right in the “wrong” place. Of Bio-Kids and Being a…
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The Journey Is The Reward
The saying, “The journey is the reward,” has been tumbling around in my brain. To me, it is a reminder…