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Sexplorer–Seducing Straight Couples Was Not On My Bingo Card
And, it happened at a church Valentine’s Day event… I just wanted to sell a painting. She stared at my…
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The WHY & Pray Away Hangover
A not‑so‑serious survival guide to life after telling everyone your business. Welp, now what? Life after WHY and Pray Away…
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Sexplorer–"Do you know what your name means in England?"
Yes, I do. And I live up to that “meaning” all the time. Being free to be Randy/randy has been…
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Ask It Basket– Glitter, Grit, and Getting Out
Why My Story Is Healing, Not a Hustle The Question “So tell me, Randy—at what point in bouncing from ‘ex-gay’…
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Sexplorer–"What is one of the most embarrassing moments in your sexploration so far?"
Let’s just say it involved a particular medication lasting much longer than four hours and a hilarious ER doctor. Am…
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How It's Going: Seven Years Later
From dreamy beginnings to shared snacks and Real Housewives marathons. Back in 20222 I wrote, For 21 years I was…
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Weird Is Where I Belong
A reflection on childhood scars, bonus parenthood, and finally feeling right in the “wrong” place. Of Bio-Kids and Being a…
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The Journey Is The Reward
The saying, “The journey is the reward,” has been tumbling around in my brain. To me, it is a reminder…
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F*ck ICE
I sat down today ready to write a *Sexplorer* post, but that’s impossible right now — the news is too…
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Of Volkswagens & Men in Kilts
And if they are men in kilts driving a “Paprika Red” EOS, even better! Last Saturday I went from feeling…
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Sexplorer–Is Monogamy A Unrealistic Standard?
For some it is unrealistic. But like my friend Allen says, “Whatever people decide to do, or don’t do, in…
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Ask It Basket–"Can we pray for you?"
I was hanging out with Danielle Apple and her husband on the Sanford Riverwalk and right in the middle of…
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A Christmas Weekend Post
blah blah blah and then Daniel Craig said to me, “Stop it!!!”, blah blah blah How did Chicago become the…
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Bon Voyage! The Sail Away Party on Celebrity Xcel and Carpe Diem!
We have been on quite a few cruises and always love being on the top deck of the ship as…
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How a Dramahuahua, Shared Grief, and Chosen Family Saved My Holiday Joy
This post is kinda great in its simplicity and humor. 🙂 “Intentional gratefulness is the active, conscious practice of seeking…