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Category: Wayfinder
Everything Randy has written, all in one place.
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The Person You Were Isn’t Evidence Against the Person You Are
Randy Scobey reflects on facing the harm of his past, making room for change, and giving the person he is…
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The Permission Nobody Gives You
Sometimes the hardest thing you’ll ever do is stop waiting for someone else to tell you it’s okay. I spent…
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The Kindest Thing We Can Do Is Let People Change
I used to think consistency was one of the highest virtues—that if you believed something on Monday, you should believe…
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What Pride Means to Someone Who Once Protested Himself
A story of fear, freedom, and the coffee that changed everything I almost didn’t go. It was my first Pride…
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Going Back Into Counseling. Again.
There’s a moment — and if you’ve been here before, you know the one — where you look at your…
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Thirteen Years Free
Today is Juneteenth. I want to say that plainly and with the weight it deserves. Juneteenth marks the day in…
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Joy Is Doing the Lord’s Work (And Honestly, It’s About Time)
There is a thing I believe with my whole entire being, and I have believed it quietly for years because…
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The Strange Math of Outlasting Your Own Past
There’s a feeling I don’t have a clean name for yet, which is annoying, because I’m a writer and naming…