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Everything Randy has written, all in one place.
By the time you read this, I’ll be stepping off a plane in Puerto Rico — that strange, liminal moment…
This week’s breadcrumb along the trail of my journey wasn’t gentle. It hit like a brick — one of those…
Welcome to my new mid-week Wayfinder newsletter, the space where I track the little signals and subtle shifts that don’t…
My former church is teaching that hell as a western evangelical culture construct doesn’t exist. I love that for them.…
The question of “are you at a crossroads in your life?” in the ex-gay context is so manipulative. It creates…
A good friend Julie read my book (WHY: A Memoir) and makes some pretty good insights with questions. This is…
Being able to say “I don’t know,” is sometimes a sweet relief… In my twenties, I learned that I could…
“I went through a LOT of what you wrote about in the book; would writing a memoir help me heal?”…