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The Fully Clothed Guy at the Clothing-Optional Campground
I went to a gay clothing-optional campground and somehow managed to keep every damn piece of clothing on. It’s funny now—but the reason I couldn’t take them off wasn’t prudishness.…
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Forty Years Later, We Finally Stopped Keeping Score
Forty years after high school, I expected nostalgia. What I found instead was peace, laughter, old friends, reading glasses, a…
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Nobody Warned Me About Becoming an Older Gay Man
I spent years figuring out how to be gay. Apparently nobody thought to mention I would eventually have to figure…
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Artistic Creativity Is Part Of My Core Value
This “core value” journey has been like dealing with ceiling popcorn; what was once seen as a good idea is…
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The Blue Wave Isn't Guaranteed
Why my worries about Democrats haven’t gone away Back when I was a self-loathing pick-me Republican, I did get one…
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FORTY Years Later, I’m Finally Showing Up
Reunion, redemption, and the long road back to self‑worth. We were the “first to go four” at Brentwood High School…
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When Platforms Start Checking Your Pulse
Substack’s new AI scanner and the strange vibe it creates. So, this is happening, is scanning us now. I don’t…