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The Fully Clothed Guy at the Clothing-Optional Campground
I went to a gay clothing-optional campground and somehow managed to keep every damn piece of clothing on. It’s funny now—but the reason I couldn’t take them off wasn’t prudishness.…
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My Give-a-Damn Isn’t Broken. It’s Just More Selective.
I haven’t run out of give-a-damn. I’ve just learned that energy is a currency—and not every opinion, argument, or person…
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The Person You Were Isn’t Evidence Against the Person You Are
Randy Scobey reflects on facing the harm of his past, making room for change, and giving the person he is…
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What Happened to All My Former Selves?
From an invisible abused child to a public ex-gay advocate and, finally, a man learning to live honestly, I look…
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We Were Trapped in the Mirror Too
A former Exodus leader reflects on the pressure to become a living testimony—and what happens when honesty threatens the story.
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Randemption
Revisiting the gay bars of my youth, reclaiming one terrible memory, and discovering that time turns leather bars into luxury…
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When the Pastor Becomes Untouchable
Death of a Pastor’s Wife tells an extreme story, but the church hierarchy surrounding it—and the misuse of spiritual authority—is…