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Mugwump Ramblings — Serenity at 30,000 Feet While the World Behaves Like… the World
There’s nothing quite like preparing for a flight—already a full‑body exercise in surrender—while the news cycle is busy auditioning for…
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Sexplorer — My First Bathhouse Visit (A Cautionary Tale for the Overly Optimistic)
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, misadventures, revelations, and the kind of laughter that bursts out…
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The Light We Carry, The Shadow We Fear
There are moments when the past rises up like a shadow behind you, reminding you of where you came from…
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Wayfinder–The Man I Trusted, The Lie I Didn’t See
This week’s breadcrumb along the trail of my journey wasn’t gentle. It hit like a brick — one of those…
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My Nervous System Filed a Formal Complaint with HR
Welcome back to Mugwump Ramblings, the weekly dispatch from my brain’s least supervised corner. Last week, I tried to slow…
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Sexplorer–The Slow Burn (Apparently I needed it)
✨ Quick update: Sexplorer is now free to read—indefinitely, just like the other sections. When I moved everything over, Substack’s…
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The Part of Me I Forgot to Water
Some weeks I don’t realize how thirsty I am until I finally stop moving. This is one of those weeks.…
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Oddly Enough, Apple Music Reflects Every Version of me
Welcome to my new mid-week Wayfinder newsletter, the space where I track the little signals and subtle shifts that don’t…
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Trying to Hear Myself Think While the Universe Bangs Pots and Pans
Welcome back to Mugwump Ramblings, where I try to untangle my inner chaos while the world plays a kazoo solo…
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Sexplorer: Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before I Started Having Sex Again
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, mistakes, discoveries, and the kind of laughter that escapes your…
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I Wasn’t Broken–Just Sprouting Weirdly
Fridays are for the softer stuff: the lessons, the stumbles, the small victories, and the moments that remind me I’m…
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My Brain on Breaking News: A Love Hate Relationship
Every morning I sit down with a cup of coffee, a pensive look, and some Ibuprofen. Then I try to…
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Sexplorer-The First Time I Realized Sex Could Be Playful, Not Performative
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, mistakes, discoveries, and the kind of laughter that only happens…
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The Art of Beginning Again (For the 47th Time)
Fridays are for the softer stuff: the lessons, the stumbles, the small victories, and the moments that remind me I’m…
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Why I Still Believe in Nuance (Even When the Internet Doesn’t)
Hot takes are easy. Humanity is harder. Every morning I sit down with a cup of coffee, a pensive look,…